LIFE
As you may or may not know, I teach first grade. I invite you to think back to when you were in 1st grade. The excitement of going to school, the joy of having recess every day, the fun of coloring, cutting, and gluing. Can you see it?
You learn many things in first grade. You learn how to stand in a single file line. It’s harder than it looks. You learn how to make it through the school day without a nap. Sometimes this skill needs to be relearned in high school. You learn that eating glue is not a good choice. And you learn some ways to be a good friend.
You also learn “school stuff” – reading, writing, math, science. At the beginning of the year, I ask my students to tell me what they want to learn in first grade. Many of their answers include, “I want to learn how to read.” In first grade, you do learn how to read more words – bigger words – and how to spell those big words. Today I have a big word for you – LIFE. Four letter L-I-F-E. It doesn’t seem so big, until you start to spell it. The letters take on their own meanings. I’m going to share with you what each letter means to me.
First letter L – Live your life to the fullest. I’m sure you’ve heard this quote before. But I’ve learned that the meaning changes when you emphasize different words in the phrase. For example, LIVE your life to the fullest. You need to live your life – experience it. Don’t lay around waiting for life to come to you – you need to go out and live. Now if you said Live your life to the FULLEST – then you live with no regrets. Don’t let fear take over your life. You take opportunities when they are offered to you. But if you said Live YOUR LIFE to the fullest then the meaning changes once again. It’s YOUR LIFE – that means you can’t compare it to someone else’s life. Your life is unique to you. What is right for someone else is not necessarily right for you. So don’t try to live someone else’s life – Live YOUR life to the fullest.
The next letter in LIFE is I – To me, I stands for integrity. That is doing what you say you are going to do. Keeping your promises. So it is important that you don’t give promises too easily. A synonym for integrity is honesty. Now it is just good practice to be honest with people. But often overlooked is the fact that you need to be honest with yourself. Give yourself the respect you deserve – don’t try to fool you. Live with integrity.
We have an L, we have an I. Next comes F – To me, F is faith. You need to have faith in your skills and abilities – No one can take those away from you. You have so many skills – some you’ve learned at school, some at home, and some from friends. Just because you aren’t in high school any more doesn’t mean that those skills and abilities suddenly disappear. I know one ability you all have. I believe it is the most important ability and I know you have it because you’ve made it this far – It is the ability to learn. You can learn a new skill and you can learn about yourself. You are going to use this ability for the rest of your life. So have faith in your abilities and live your life with faith.
The last letter in LIFE is E. E is a silent letter, but it has an important job. Just think if it wasn’t at the end of the word life, it would change the word completely.
E stands for Expect. Now, expect is kind of tricky because you can expect things to happen that don’t happen AND things can happen that you don’t expect to happen.
So I have a list of The Do’s and Don’ts of Expectations:
· Don’t expect life to be fair – Do expect to be happy with what you have
· Don’t expect to automatically get everything you want – Do expect to be satisfied after you have worked to earn something
· Don’t expect life to be easy – Do expect to have people in your life to love and support you
· Don’t expect to be paid back for everything - Do expect to feel joy when you show someone a random act of kindness
When you have these kinds of expectations, you have hope. Hope is what gets you through life’s struggles – hope that things will get better, hope that your dreams will come true.
That’s it – four simple letters L-I-F-E to spell a big word – LIFE. So remember first grade and all the things you’ve learned about life since then. LIFE will take on a whole new meaning in the weeks and years to come.
So live your life to the fullest
Live your life with integrity
Live your life with faith
And Live your life expecting hope